Wednesday, December 15, 2010
Thursday, December 9, 2010
Playing with her teapot
Friday, November 12, 2010
One more accomplishment
Wednesday, November 10, 2010
Seventeen Months(!)
Tuesday, November 9, 2010
Friday, October 29, 2010
Wednesday, October 20, 2010
16 Month Update
Here are some of Julia's latest accomplishments and interests:
1. Julia loves to sit in our laps. She will sit on our laps when we ask her to and of her own accord. She's always very proud of herself when she comes to sit with us. So sweet. She also loves to sit on blankets spread on the floor, especially her Marmee quilt. For some reason, she also really enjoys sitting on her shopping cart cover spread on the floor.
2. Julia LOVES the phone. Especially because it's usually Daddy calling. She doesn't always like to talk on the phone, but she does like to "give kisses" to the person on the line. She puts her mouth on the speaker part of the phone and makes her kissy sound ("mmmmm").
3. Speaking of kisses, Julia is learning to blow kisses. She has thought it hilarious to receive them for quite some time now (especially when Mommy says goodnight from the bedroom door). To blow kisses, Julia puts her hand over her mouth and puffs (either with or without her kiss sound).
4. Julia's vocabulary has not expanded much beyond "mama," "dada", and "hi," although she continues to babble in many and various forms. However, her repertoire of animal sounds is quite extensive. She has mastered the dog, cat, polar bear, brown bear, lion, duck, and cow. She is currently learning the frog and the monkey. It's quite hilarious. I did get one video, but it wasn't very good, so we will keep trying.
5. Julia continues to wave "hello" and "good-bye." When she can tell Jonathan or I are getting ready to leave, she will start waving (which is very bittersweet for me when I'm leaving for work). She will also wave to people when we are out if they say hello or good-bye to her so that despite her shyness she comes off as quite a charmer.
6. Over the past month or so, Julia has started to show an interest in feeding herself with silverware. She's very good at getting the utensils into her mouth, but not so much at getting food onto the utensil and repositioning it as necessary to be able to put it in her mouth. She is doing a fabulous job of learning to drink out of a regular cup. Speaking of drinking, though, she's still not sold on milk (unless it's been on her cereal first).
7. Teeth and tantrums… another hallmark of the past month with Julia. She started getting her bottom molars a couple weeks ago, and they are almost completely through now. The top ones are just starting to cut through. It's been a pretty traumatic experience for her (and for Mommy and Daddy, too) that included hunger strikes, napless days, lots of tears, runny noses, and things not decent to put into print. Poor bunny… And tantrums… she's definitely not afraid to express her displeasure! She will scream, throw herself on the ground, and cover her face with her hands. Quite dramatic! (hmm, wonder where she gets that from?) Anyways, thus far, ignoring the behavior has been a quick fix… hope it stays that way for awhile.
8. We just started up Kindermusik again. Julia was rather shy the first day back, but she's been warming up to it again. Today was our third class, but although she was a little clingy, she did seem to have a lot of fun dancing, laughing, clapping, playing the instruments, etc.
9. Julia is just starting to take a real interest in coloring. She has a little trouble knowing how to hold the crayon or marker but she's getting the idea. She has a couple different colors and makes a point of rotating through her selection as she's coloring.
10. As you can see in some of the pictures, Julia finally has enough hair for barrettes! This has been especially exciting for Mommy, who had to wait over a year to start doing her little girl's hair. She looks so precious and grown-up with them in. We call them her "pretties" and she helps pick one out in the morning and put it away at night.
11. Julia got new shoes! She outgrew her old soft soled shoes, so we got her a new pair of soft soles to wear around the house. They have flowers on them, and Julia loves them very much. And for outside, in Hansen and Wessler family tradition, we took Julia to our local Stride Rite store and bought her first pair of sneakers. These shoes are also very well loved by Miss Julia. Ask her about her "new shoes" and much excited babbling will ensue.
12. And finally, I would be remiss in not mentioning some of Julia's favorite toys and pastimes. Perhaps the most beloved are her two free American Heart Association calendars. She loves for us to look at and talk about the pictures with her (about 20 times in a row). She continues to enjoy books in general. She also enjoys snuggling with all her pals in her big girl arm chair (that she can now get into herself thanks to the ottoman). And for some reason she is obsessed with her pals (or us) kissing her feet. She will hand us a stuffed animal and then hold up her foot to be kissed. She also loves to play ball and still spends a lot of handing us books, toys, pictures, coupons, etc. and then taking them back. We did get her some new big girl toys, including a little kitchen, a shape sorter, and a ride-on horse, all of which she enjoys playing with. And she has developed a new love for driving her doll stroller around. What's hilarious is that she will push it around the house, but when she's done with it, she will pick it up and carry it back to where it goes (rather than pushing it back).
Julia's Autumn Adventures
Tuesday, September 14, 2010
Thursday, September 9, 2010
Playing with yogurt
Wednesday, September 8, 2010
First Word?! and (lots of) other Julia news
- Julia talks A LOT. Has been for awhile now. Not necessarily intelligible words but definitely purposeful "babbling." Sometimes she seems to be trying to repeat words that we say. But a week or two ago, she very clearly started saying "hi." We weren't sure at first if this was just another random sound or if she actually understood what it meant. At any rate, she now seems to understand what it means (and that she's adorable when she says it!). We'll get a video up soon. In addition to "hi," she definitely has some other consistent "words:" ma-ma (mostly when she's upset and pawing at my legs); da-dye-yah (daddy); ba-oomba-oomba-oomba (not sure what this means... she used to only say it when she was upset, but now she will randomly say it or repeat it if we say it to her); a-goonga-goonga-goonga (in a really high-pitched voice is how she "sings"); and a high-pitched scream, both spontaneous and echoing us (it's the "Wessler sound" -- anyone who knows Jonathan and his dad should know what this means!).
- In addition to "words," Julia is quite an excellent spitter and is learning to make animal sounds (most of which are some variation of a growl, no matter what kind of sound you're trying to get her to make). She also says "aaaaahhhhh!!!" whenever she gets her nose wiped (interesting... not exactly sure where that came from)
- As far as more gross motor skill development: as a walker, Julia keeps getting steadier and faster. Sometimes she goes so fast, you expect her to do a somersault (such as when she runs to the door when Mommy gets home from work). She also has a love affair with any stairs she meets. We now have to take the long way to the mailbox so that she can go up the steps on the sidewalk. She also loves to dance (a combination of bouncing, rocking back and forth, and clapping/waving her hands around)... she will dance to her music or if she hears the word "dance." And we finally taught her the arm stretch "sooo big!!!" which she loves.
- Over the latter part of the summer, we've had the opportunity to explore some of the area's playgrounds and spray parks with her friends from Kindermusik and with some of my fellow nurses who also have young children. Julia is definitely a fan of the slide (and the steps to get to it) and definitely NOT a fan of the swings. Her opinion of the spray park was more mixed. The water pressure/temperature and the other crazy kids were intimidating, but she loved trying to grab the water and running in/out of the spray. She was soaked from head to toe and didn't seem to mind (and of course, this is my child who sobs hysterically at the sight of the bathtub).
- One of the neatest parts of watching Julia develop right now is seeing how much more aware she is of herself, her surroundings, and things in her surroundings on more than just a basic level. Some of these ways are: Learning her body parts -- Julia is now able to identify on herself and others: arms, feet, toes, head, hair, nose, ears, and tummy. Speaking of hair, Julia knows what a brush is and how to use it! Whether it's her brush or Mommy's, she will brush her own or her Baby's hair. Julia is becoming quite affectionate -- she will give kisses spontaneously and to request, give hugs, and do "pat-pat" where she very gently pats us or her stuffed animals. She still loves books, and likes to be read to and read them herself. If we start reciting a book from memory, she can usually go and identify it. She also knows that "Goodnight Moon" is her bedtime story and always picks it out at the appropriate time. And she still loves her Kindermusik CDs. We imported them onto the computer (since the speakers on our computer are now better than those on our CD player!), and when she wants to listen to a CD, she will bring us the case of the one she wants as her way to tell us to turn on the music.
- Julia is quite the busy bee. When we ever happen to see her doing something sitting still, it's a Kodak moment! Some of her current favorite activities include: Looking at her books. Playing with her stuffed animals -- for the past couple weeks she's been in a phase where she carries a stuffed animal under each arm and walks around the house with them, giving them kisses and "pat-pats." She's also discovered how to get up onto one of our arm chairs via its ottoman. It's her "big girl seat" and she loves to sit up there with a book, her pals, or a snack. She's starting to learn about "pretend" play, which right now usually consists of "drinking" tea out of her tea cups and sharing tea with Mommy, Daddy, and her stuffed animals. She still spends a lot of time looking out the window (probably wishing she was outside), and she loves to watch dogs. She definitely has a "dog" sounding word that she says whenever she sees one. Oh, speaking of dogs, if you ask her what a dog says, she will pant! The other thing she likes to watch is... herself. We set up a screensaver for the computer that has all of our photos, and she loves to stand and watch it, especially if she's listening to her music at the same time (and will protest when it turns off!). And Julia is a very good sharer/helper. While playing, she likes to give her books and toys to us (and take them away from us) in (to her) a very specific manner. And she LOVES to help around the house. Laundry is now a joint task for Julia and me. She hands me the laundry out of the hamper when we sort it, and then she hands me the clothes to put into the washer. She also likes to help empty the dishwasher and pick up her toys. And she puts my shoes away for me if I've left them out. She likes to empty out her dresser drawers but at least she also likes to put everything away again.
- Julia's eating habits continue to be an up and down adventure. What she loves one day, she hates the next... typical toddler behavior. Even her beloved yogurt and cheese have been scoffed at somewhat recently. Still loves blueberries and strawberries. And finally has a favorite green veggie (thank goodness!): broccoli (aka "flower"). She's also learned what "snack time" means (and will go to the cupboard where her snacks are kept if you happen to say the word), as she slowly weans herself from nursing (just 3 times a day now). Although nursing less, she HATES MILK. We're giving a rest right now since she does eat a lot of other dairy foods. On a semi-related note, her 8th tooth just cut through, and she seems to be working on at least 2 more.
- She's transitioned herself to one nap a day. This was traumatic at first (especially for Mommy), as she went from 4 nap hours a day to 2 in one fell swoop. Since she's lengthened her afternoon nap to 3+ hours, life has gotten better. And she's definitely become a creature of habit, at least in regards to her bedtime routine. Get pajamas on, take her vitamins, brush her teeth, read a story, kiss Daddy good night, nurse with Mommy, and sing her bedtime song/say prayers... she will lead you from step to step in order and gets very frustrated if you don't keep up!
Monday, August 23, 2010
We visit the Finger Lakes, Iowa, and Niagara Falls
Wednesday, August 11, 2010
Sharing and picking up
And Julia also has learned to pick up after herself. Instead of just creating humongous messes, she now attempts to clean them up after creating them:
Tuesday, July 13, 2010
Julia goes to the zoo
Fourth of July Photos
Julia and iPods


Monday, July 12, 2010
- WALKING! Definitely the highlight of the last month or so! Julia had been cruising along the furniture almost as long as she'd been able to pull herself up (since mid March or so), but she was completely uninterested in trying to walk with help. If I held her hands and tried to have her stand, she apparently thought we were playing and would just go limp and giggle. When we were in Peoria, Julia had birthday pictures taken at the Botanical Gardens (happy birthday from Jonathan's parents). During the photo shoot, we were standing on a path, and the photographer asked Jonathan and me to each take one of Julia's hands... and she just took off! We walked down the path, and she didn't want to stop! After that, she was more than willing to walk holding hands, and taking an evening walk became a family ritual (and she always screams bloody murder when we have to come back inside! She still LOVES the outdoors... Jonathan says she gets that from me!) Julia had also been standing more and more on her own, but as soon as she realized it, she would sit down or grab onto something for support. Somehow, on June 25, we convinced her that "standing up like a big girl" (see a previously posted video) was really cool, and she was SO proud of herself. In addition to being able to stand up and stay standing up without any support, she also took her first steps (to fall into Mommy or Daddy's arms) later on the same day. So, in her typical fashion, she mastered a two new skills at the same time and has never looked back. Each day after that, she could take more and more steps at a time, is now able to carry objects around with her (which she LOVES), and each day she is more and more steady on her feet. So fun to watch!
- Julia and I are almost finished with our summer Kindermusik class, and then we are off until October. Since starting to walk, Julia has particularly enjoyed walking/dancing portions of the class. And, of course, the baby massage and anything involving balls are still a big hit. It has been neat to watch Julia and her classmates develop from "lap babies" to "walkers" since February. Also fun to see Julia become more socially interactive (sometimes). One of the moms is going to organize a playgroup so we can still get together until class reconvenes in the fall. Julia also continues to especially enjoy listening to her home CDs. They have definitely been known to help her calm down either at home or in the car.
- Eating and Julia have been an interesting adventure for sure. She is more picky about textures than tastes (seems to prefer either extremely smooth or super chunky/crispy) and what she loves one day she may hate the next day (and vice versa). The wise have assured us that this is typical toddler behavior. Sigh... Consistent favorites are pretty much any kind of fruit (current absolute favorite is blueberries), yogurt, sweet potatoes, avocados, and most meat (especially chicken) and baked goods (muffins, breads, etc.).
- Perhaps Julia will find more textures palatable as she gets more teeth. Her sixth tooth is almost in (3 on top, 3 on the bottom).
- What Julia lacks in the eating department, she makes up for in the sleeping. She continues to be a great sleeper... bedtime is around 9, and she will usually sleep until 8 or 9 in the morning. Depending on when she gets up in the morning, we sometimes eliminate the morning nap, but she always takes at least one, if not two, good long (1 1/2 to 2 hours) naps.
- A random cute thing Julia does is ask to go outside. She will walk over to the door, stick her fingers between the door and the frame, and make cute noises (that quickly becomes fussing if we don't go out). Going along with that, don't know if I've mentioned this before or not, but Julia continues to love to get the mail with me. She holds the key, gives it to me when we get to the mailbox, and holds out her hand to take it back after I close the box.
- Julia LOVES BOOKS (still). I don't think her favorites have changed much from our previous post of her favorites. Now that she can walk, she loves to carry her favorite books around. And now she can bring us the books she wants... she'll either hold the book up to us or just plop it on our laps, depending on how impatient she is!
- Other random things Julia has learned/likes to do: She's been able to shake her head "no" for quite awhile (usually while in her high chair, of course), but recently, she's started nodding her head "yes," often when I will say the word. It's very slow, deliberate, and super cute because she always has a very silly smile! For some reason, she's also discovered a love of "standing" on her head: she will bend over and rest her head on the floor and just stand like that. Pretty hilarious. Even more hilarious is her occasional habit of walking around holding her head and saying "aah, aah, aah"! Speaking of her head, she's finally realizing that she has (some) hair and likes to touch and pat it.
- Julia has learned to point at the things she wants (especially at the dinner table), which can become quite a fun (or not so fun) game. It is neat that she is starting to have ways of communicating to us specifically what she wants.
- It's also amazing how many words and phrases Julia recognizes. But that's another post...
Thursday, July 8, 2010
Saturday, July 3, 2010
These are a few of my favorite things...
- Baby (of course!)
- Orange block (Julia got a tractor with Mega Bloks for her birthday from Cousin James, and for some reason, she's developed a special love for the orange one)
- Chicka Chicka Boom Boom (we read this book at least 10 times a day... how can you say no when she walks up to you and hands you the book?!)
- Tea set (especially opening and closing the lid [there are sound effects], pretending to eat treats and sip out of the cups and putting the treats inside the tea pot)
- Beach ball (loves to throw, kick, roll, and carry around)
- Books with textures (especially the dolly book and the big textured book she just got from Uncle Dan and Aunt Molly)
- Bee bath toy (Julia's favorite bath toy... the bee floats inside the toy when you fill it with water, and she likes to push the bee up/down in the water and hold during her bath)
- Kindermusik CDs (likes to open/close the cases and just learned to take the CDs out of the cases; also LOVES to listen to them, even when she's crabby [sometimes even fixes the crabbiness])
- Post-it notes (for some reason, Julia is fascinated with post-its... she likes to take the pads of notes apart, carry them around, share them with Mommy and Daddy, and take them in/out of the end table drawer)
- Turning pages (while this is not exactly a favorite item, it is most definitely a favorite activity, especially if it's a "big girl" book, such as her scrapbooks and Daddy's organ music)
Saturday, June 26, 2010
Taking steps
After the video ended she even turned away from us and took a cautionary step or two in the other direction! Things are getting exciting around here!
Friday, June 25, 2010
Learning to walk
Monday, May 24, 2010
More of what Julia does
Saturday, May 15, 2010
What Julia does
Monday, May 10, 2010
Just one more month until the big day!
- Clapping! Julia clapped for the first time during an organ recital on Sunday, May 2. It was actually during a piece (Mendelssohn's fourth organ sonata, to be precise), but by the time she attended Jonathan's improvisation class recital the following Tuesday, she had figured out she was supposed to clap during the applause. Whenever she claps, she is SO proud of herself. She will randomly clap, or clap when we clap, or clap whenever Jonathan and I say "Yay Julia!" And if she is standing up and wants to clap, she has to plop down on her butt so her hands can be free.
- She continues to be more and more steady on her feet. She can crawl very quickly when necessary but is starting to show more of a preference to cruise from piece of furniture to piece of furniture whenever she's able. Although we have tried to hold her hands and get her walk with help, she's just not interested yet.
- How to dance. :-P If you stand her up in front of you and tell her to dance, she will bounce her butt up and down. :-P
- Nothing new to report in the new words category. She will sometimes say "num-num" in regards to food. She does seem to be putting a lot of thought into what she's going to say and will string multiple syllables together in a very deliberate way.
- Not too many new foods this month, although she has tried apricot puree, cherry puree, and Cheerios (the Cheerios being her favorite of those three). Still loves yogurt, puffs, and yogurt melts. In fact, if you give her a bowl of puffs and yogurt melts, she will dump it on the floor so she can more easily pick out the yogurt melts to eat first.
- She definitely prefers finger foods. She will frequently shake her head "no" and gag on foods given to her on a spoon, even if she likes the food in question. She'd just rather feed it to herself with her fingers. We haven't tried getting her to use a spoon yet... we'll get there.
- She's really learned to drink well from a sippy cup (water or [very rarely] diluted apple juice). Her "Julia" cup from Grampa is her favorite.
- We took Julia to her first Rochester Philharmonic concert at the Eastman Theatre. She heard Corigliano's Gazebo Dances, Rachmaninoff's Rhapsody on a Theme by Paganinni, Schubert's Symphony No. 8, and Elgar's In the South. She actually sat through the Corigliano, but Jonathan had to get up and walk with her during the Rachmaninoff (she must not really be my child!). She just doesn't like to be still! Fortunately, the level of the theatre where we like to sit is very conducive to walking with a child and still being able to see/hear everything. Julia fell asleep during the second half and Jonathan and I were able to sit and enjoy the end of the concert together.
- The zoo! Julia and I went one afternoon with two of her friends from Kindermusik and their moms. Julia seemed indifferent to most of the animals, but she was particularly taken with the seals and the sleeping rhinos. And of course, she enjoyed being outside immensely, as she always does.
- Julia has really started to take an interest in books (I guess that makes up for the not liking Rachmaninoff thing). She loves to take a pile of books (either hers or Jonathan/mine) and flip through the pages. She is especially interested her puppy book, the books Marmee made her, the Beatrix Potter series, and her Eric Carle board books. We read a story together before her naps and at bedtime, and at naptime I let her have the book in her crib with her, and she will sit and look at the book with her baby.
- Speaking of her baby, she LOVES her baby. I think she may say "baby" before "mommy" or "daddy." Baby goes everywhere with her, and she loves to give Baby hugs and kisses. She puts her hands around Baby's neck and squeezes her and holds her close to her. It's so sweet!
- Looking out the window! Our patio door and front windows are at a right angle to each other, and she enjoys going back and forth between the two and watching the world go by. Loves all the birds that come to her feeder, cars, dogs, and the "dancing" leaves.
Thursday, April 22, 2010
Another one!
Sunday, April 18, 2010
Tooth pictures
And here is the same picture cropped and enlarged to make the tooth more visible:
Tuesday, April 13, 2010
Somehow it's already been 10 months since Julia arrived...
- Waving "hello" and "good-bye" is one of Julia's latest accomplishments. She's been working on developing this skill over the past month or so. At first, waving her arms was not exclusive to saying "hi" and "bye-bye" but now if she even just overhears Jonathan or me say it, she will start to wave. It's so adorable!
- Julia is becoming super affectionate! She will kiss her stuffed animals (especially Jamaica Monkey, her puppy, and "Rosebud Bear") and then bury her head in them and go "aaaaaahhh" and "mmmmm." She will sometimes hug and Jonathan and me and she loves to give us "kisses," which means opening her mouth up wide, smearing her slobbery mouth on us and going "mmmmm." It's the most precious thing ever!
- Julia's new tooth is coming through more and more. Hoping we can get a good picture soon. Hard to tell if anymore are on the way. It feels like there might be another one on the bottom, but she doesn't let you feel for long before she starts biting (and boy can she bite! I'm so glad she hasn't taken to biting me while she's nursing!)
- Despite her lack of many teeth, Julia is doing a lot more "chewing" rather than "gumming." She loves eating pieces of ground meat and cut up pieces of what Jonathan and I are having. This past weekend, I made beef stroganoff in the slow cooker, and Julia devoured it every night. Still loves puffs and applesauce, adores her Yo Baby yogurt, and pieces of banana are probably her favorite food right now. She's also finally developing a taste for peas and enjoys them as a finger food. Julia's also starting to learn to use a sippy cup. She had a hard time figuring it out at first, so we took the valve out of the spout and let it just pour in her mouth. Now she has learned to suck out of it and will drink at least some water with each meal.
- After Julia not being a good sleeper for so many months, it still feels so surreal that she is such a great sleeper now. Ever since she started sleeping in her crib back in February, she has been sleeping 8-10 hours every night and usually goes right back to sleep if she wakes up. There have only been a couple of times we've needed to go get her because she wakes up so sad and upset and she always settles right back down. She also continues to nap 2 times a day for 1-2 hours. Pretty amazing.
- Mobility: This kid doesn't know the meaning of still! Diaper changing and "after bath time" has become a wrestling match. Of course, the only time she's ever still is after we're done... then she just sits and looks at you! LOL She can crawl REALLY fast, but you always know she's coming because she makes this adorable panting laughing sound as she goes. Wish I could describe it better because it is so heartwrenchingly adorable! She also stands up on everything she possibly can (furniture, fireplace, refrigerator, patio door). She's also learning to cruise. Her favorite place to cruise is around the coffee table.
- By far, her favorite activity is "displacing objects," whether that means pulling everything off of a piece of furniture or pulling all her toys out of the basket. It's hard to get her to actually play with her toys most of the time. She has learned how to play "roll ball" with her little balls from Great Grandma and Grandpa Wessler -- both with Mommy and Daddy or chasing after them herself.
- Spring is finally thinking about coming to Rochester, and Julia loves it! She likes having the windows open and being able to go outside. She enjoys her daily stroller ride and it's even been warm enough to sit outside on a blanket, watch the world go by, and discover the wonders of grass. It is so fun to watch her seeing so many things for the first time. She's seeing flowers, green grass, the leaves coming out on the trees, and the many birds coming to her bird feeder (from Marmee and Pops). So neat. :-)
Monday, March 29, 2010
TOOTH!!!
Friday, March 12, 2010
Nine Month Updates
Julia and her triangle
Thursday, March 11, 2010
Julia's nine-month photos
Thursday, March 4, 2010
Another Milestone!!!
Wednesday, March 3, 2010
Huge milestone!
Wednesday, February 17, 2010
Feeding herself
Na na na!
Wednesday, February 10, 2010
Eight Month Updates and Pictures

Wednesday, January 27, 2010
Seven Month Photos (Including Christmas)











































